Be Prepared!

Tips for the Bride

* Wear a white kimono over your dress after you are put in it until your big reveal.
* Test your bouquet and bridesmaids bouquets for drops of water or color release by wiping the side of the bouquet across a white towel. (Some flowers do give off color).
* Have lambswool (sticky back type) available for your shoes, if needed
* Have an emergency kit -- bandaids, needle and thread (white or ivory, or the colors of your dress and your attendants' dresses), safety pins, styptic pencil, tweezers, q-tips, face tissue, make-up remover stick (works great on eye make-up smudges), aspirin, spot remover appropriate for your dress (note: you must check with your dress manufacturer or dry cleaner about which spot remover can be used on your dress), corn starch or baby powder for minor spills to your dress, extra stockings, extra underwear, masking tape, scotch tape, scissors and antacids.
* Don't drink -- you're already at risk of being spaced out -- don't ruin your reception by being drunk or sick (yes, it has happened...)
* If you don't have a coordinator, have a go-to friend who will handle details, like your purse, and taking you to the bathroom...
* Have someone (a friend or coordinator) with your photo checklist so you make sure you get all the shots you want. Your photographer is moving rapidly in the moment and may need to be reminded of certain shots.
* It is nice to take photos with each couple/guest so that they can have a photo keepsake -- even if you just email it to them. It makes guests feel that they are a part of your big day!
* Make sure you talk to each of your guests and thank him/her for coming!
* Don't fight with anyone on your wedding day. (Trust me -- this is a biggie!).
* Get sleep and don't drink the night before the wedding -- you will need all your energy. After all, you are going to be the star of a major production!
* Have fun at your Wedding!

And this post is written with love for my niece Linda, and my cousin, Elke -- two beautiful Brides-to-be! Love, Paula